Month Of May Happenings

Back to Blogging after sooooo long...

May is a busy month for me..

Activities and Events:

Vesak Day - Dinner
Became a Volunteer for Wow Day (Taking Care of Kids from Orphanage)
Don't Forget The Lyrics - Mandarin Version Audition
Brother's Birthday Dinner
Family Gathering & BBQ..

I shall summarise everything here...

Had a vegetarian dinner at a temple in seng kang.. First time being a volunteer and bringing the kids up the singapore flyer is fun.. I had a super memory so went to take part in the "dont forget the lyrics - mandarin version" but the judges are funny to shortlist those who sang the lyrics wrongly and not those who get it right.. Wahaha.. Forget it..

Brother's birthday was a fun one and we watched a movie and played pool till 1am plus after dinner and ah.. some things happened and I must say, COOL..

I love to BBQ and sooo I would always wanna plan and prepare for BBQ.. First time after soo many year having a BBQ with my whole family.. Fun and interesting.. Especially to Xingfen, Likuan and Pingkuan.. They are sooo enthusiastic in all the preparation and they had soo much fun that night.. How I wish we could have this kind of gathering more often...

Ah Beng Jokes to spice up your day...

Hello.. Long time never blog.. Just adding some "Ah Beng" jokes to spice up your day.. Enjoy..

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Ah Beng bought a new mobile.
He sent a message to everyone from his phone book & said,’My mobile no. has changed. Earlier it was Nokia 3310. Now it is 6610′.

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Ah Beng: I am proud, coz my son is in Medical College .
Friend: Really, what is he studying?
Ah Beng: No, he is not studying, they are studying him.

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Ah Beng: Doctor, in my dreams, I play football every night.
Dr: Take this tablet, you will be ok.
Ah Beng: Can I take tomorrow, tonight is final game.

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Ah Beng: If I die, will u remarry?
Wife: No! I’ll stay with my sister. But if I die, will u remarry?
Ah Beng: No, I’ll also stay with your sister.

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Ah Beng: People consider me as a ‘GOD’
Wife: How do you know?
Ah Beng: When I went to the Park today, everybody said, 'Oh GOD! U have come again ' .

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Ah Beng complained to the police: ‘Sir, all items are missing, except the TV in my house ' . Police: ‘How the thief did not take TV’?
Ah Beng: ‘I was watching TV news…’

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Ah Beng comes back 2 his car & find a note saying ‘Parking Fine’.
He writes a note and sticks it to a pole ‘Thanks for compliment’.

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How do you recognize Ah Beng in School? He is the one who erases the notes from the book when the teacher erases the board.

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Once Ah Beng was walking he had a glove on one hand and not on other.
So the man asked him why he did so. He replied that the weather forecast announced that on one hand it would be cold and on the other hand it would be hot.

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Ah Beng in a bar and his cellular phone rings. He picks it up and says ‘Hello, how did you know I was here’?

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Ah Beng: Why are all these people running?
Man: This is a race, the winner will get the cup.
Ah Beng: If only the winner will get the cup, why others running.

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Teacher: ‘I killed a person’ convert this sentence into future tense.
Ah Beng: The future tense is ‘u will go to jail’.

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Ah Beng told his servant: ‘Go and water the plants’!
Servant: ‘It’s already raining '.
Ah Beng: ‘So what? Take an umbrella and go’.

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Friendship can be very shallow??? Yes, I agree...

Friends.. Who can be your REAL friends and who are shallow-minded??? Many..

I was clearing my email inbox when I came across 2 emails forwarded to me by a close friend of mine. Those emails that were between two "friends" and made me realised that they are "accusing" me, making me realised that their friendship with me is soooo shallow...

I got to know one of them, A when I was studying my part time diploma, and hence got to know the other one (B) thru her as well.. I did all I can to help them in all ways.. For me, when I am unhappy with someone or whatever things that happen to me, I will vent my fustrations by either complaining to a friend or cry it out loud.. And I have this group of friends(C) who will joke with me, although sometimes I cannot take their jokes, but I also did not tell them straight and problems started.... I will complain about them to A and she will console me and all sorts lah.. Den later some things happen and as someone who protected friends' privacy I refused to give A my group of C's contacts. A got it thru other means and a series of quarrels happened.. In the end, I quarrelled with C and did not contact for 6 months after A mentioned they are not worthy to be my friends.. A insults C in her blog and made herself seemed like she is a victim... After 6 months, I did not contact C and contact less of A & B, and on my birthday last year, I patched up with C... And this incurred the wrath of A & B, and C tried to email to explain to B when I got threatening calls from A & B. Later, C forwarded the emails to me and I got a shock and realised that A & B dun even treasure my friendship and despite doing so much for them, they despised me.. This makes me feel how shallow our friendship is... And later A & B tried to push all their wrong doings to me, making me a scapegoat of their wrong doings... A even wrote a blog saying how much I hurt her when she treated me soooo well... Shit, who is treating who well, when C mentioned for A to take down the blogs as it reflects her as a shallow person, she retorts saying blog is a way to vent her fustrations as well.. So now I am also venting my fustrations, cos when I read the emails, I was sooo hurt by their accusations that I cried, while C mentions to me that no point crying for those kind of people.. I seriously think that I am so STUPID to befriend them and treating them so well..

Anyway, now I do not contact them and I am much more happier and I am really glad that they showed me their ture colours.. It is ok cos I know I have got better friends, thousands of times better than them and anyway, thanks to C that I seen their true colours... At least I know my friendship with C and group are not shallow... They stood by me when I needed help now.. And I told them I cannot take some "jokes" which they made fun of me.. We are now more truthful and I am sure our friendship will last longer... Thank you my dear friends.. U know who you are...

Grandpa's Birthday Dinner at Roland's Restaurant 12 Feb 2009

Finally this day comes.. I had been waiting for this day to come as I wanted to see which idiot wanna provoke my family...

Grandpa with the Kuan (s) and Fern (s)

Me and Bro..

Me and Mum..

Me and Pei Fen...

Me with Li Kuan..

At 7.30pm, we reached the restaurant as the dinner will start at 8pm SHARP as told by my grandpa... As usual, some idiots who think highly of themselves reached at 8plus... and when they came in, they asked: "wah.. no food yet ah.. ask them to serve food now..." I was thinking, if not for u all, we might have eaten the 3rd dish liao lah... still wanna complain...

Me and Xingfen

Our Table

All GALS...

Bro, Me with Auntie Minah..

Me with Auntie Linda and Pei Fen

There was also free karaoke session and my dad sang many songs.. Some rude people just covered their ears, telling people that the "sound pollution" is irritating... Li Kuan also sang few songs and I liked the song, My Love by Westlife and he sang really well... Kudos to Li Kuan...

The food at the restaurant was OK nia lah... but it costs S$600++ per table... Just feels its not value for the money... Also, Auntie Minah is going back to Indonesia already, she had been with my grandpa's family as a domestic maid for soooo many years, taking care of my semi-paralysed grand-mother till she passed away 4 years ago... I think she should have been with us for about 7-8 years ba... Thats long but she is a nice lady.. Hopefully all goes on well for her after she returned to her family... Photos Session now... Wahaha...

Auntie Minah and US...

At Work...

I am soooo tired today, din get enough sleep and IF my boss did not sms me in the morning, I would have slept till lunch time.. Wahaha... Glad I woke up...

Had a fun day yesterday.. Went to Auntie Shirley's place for a gathering, and got closer with my "other side" of cousins, and find them really great and wonderful... I knew Junjie better, knew three more friends, which I found I can communicate better with Carin... Played MAHJONG (as usual) and also played Wii.. Its so fun, can consider to buy one set back home and play... Wahaha... The tennis and the boxing games can really sweat... I specially like the bowling game... I could never score so high in real life...

We had a nice lunch... with all home-cooked food and home-made cookies... Arghh... I started my slimming plans (haha, planned to slim down as much as I can this year..) and am exercising every day with my parents and brother.. We also "lou hei" as well... and the salmon was soooo nice... I love salmon fish..

This morning when I reached office, had nothing better to do, cos waiting for my boss' instructions and took some pics with my phone and he made fun of me and even say i very "hiao" (vain in hokkien).. Not bad leh Boss, you know what is "hiao"... Ya lah, you got see any gal who is not "hiao" meh.. Haha... Shall upload the pics I took when I feeling Bo Liao... Hee...

After My Boss say I "Hiao"

I Love This Pic the BEST

I Love taking PICS...

I look sooo Sleepy...

Going for dinner tonight at my Grandpa's place, a place where I dread going to... Hopefully nothing happens tonight and Thursday night...